Do what you're comfortable with. If you can throw a 16 pound ball, and be comfortable with it, then yes, get a 16. Yes, it will plow through pins better. Since I've gone to a 16 pound DV8 Too Reckless, I've shot two 300's with it a 299 and 296 in just a couple months. I love the added punch the 16 gives me.
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