JaMau…you're very good at making excuses why moving up a level is hard…but at the end of the day, any sport or hobby should be a progression. If you get good enough to bowl in tournaments…thats the next step. Good enough to win those…take the next step.
I never said it was "easy". Oh my God it's not EASY!! If it was easy, everyone would do it. But, and there are some very high profile bowling "experts" that would agree with me here, I think far too many bowlers are bowling on THS and never advancing. And they all have "excuses" or their own little reasons. But the bottom line is…if you're out bowling your league…you need a new league. And no…it's not that hard to find a sport pattern league. Just pick up one of those little newspapers at your local alley..you'll find at least 3 within driving distance. And to use the excuse that, "well…to win at the next level…I'd have to bowl like a 250+ average on a THS league."…well, okay. Then there's a goal…250…when you hit it…off to sport league ya go!
I used to be a runner. And I always wanted to do 10Ks or even marathons…but I was struggling to finish in the top 1-6 of my age group in 5Ks…so I didn't want to go to an even tougher class/distance until I could consistently finish well in 5Ks. So, I set goals and told myself…3 top 3 finishes…it'll be time to move on.
Most sports don't let you choose that for yourself…they MAKE you move up. We're lucky that in bowling it's our choice. But far, far, far too many good house bowlers aren't pushing themselves enough. Especially with the new technology that exists. And the issue here…at least the way I see it…and this is NOT to diminish JaMau's recent 300…but as these high scores and 300 games are becoming exponentially more common…they are being cheapened. I see a guy nearly throw a 300 game EVERY WEEK in my Friday league. And while it's still exciting…I'm seeing more and more bowlers not even give it much attention. They used to all gather around to watch…now, more than half the league kinda goes, "whatever". And thats too bad. Because if you're a 189 average bowler…and you have that ONE game…of your life…where you're 2 strikes away from the golden goose…thats a HUGE deal. But, and I kinda feel this way too…I'm starting to see league bowlers bowling 750 series EVERY WEEK…and it's almost like I don't like that person. Rather than respect their ability and cheer their accomplishment…I feel like I'm watching a college basketball player scoring 100 in a rec league summer game. I mean, how high an average does a person need to feel good about themselves? How many 300 games before…maybe ya swallow the pride and test yourself?
Ya know who I have mad respect for? The old, scratch league bowlers that bowl in the league next to our's on Thursdays. These guys are GOOD…and they go out every week…no handicaps…and they just go straight up against other elite competition. And many of these guys are pushing 70! If I see a guy with a 225 average and 3 three hundred games…then see a guy with a 189 average bowling in a sport league scratch…I walk right past the first guy to shake the second guy's hand…because not only is he good…but he's not afraid. He put his ego in his pocket and said to himself, "I know I'm good…I got nothin left to prove bowling against beginners…and now I'm show myself how good I really am."
I mean, is that "wrong" of me to feel that way? Should I just be super-impressed when the best bowler in our league gets his 8th 300 game of the season?? Should I go over and ONCE AGAIN shake his hand and tell him how awesome he is? Or is there some limit where ya just kinda give em a head nod or a thumbs up…or maybe just not care?
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