
Originally Posted by
Aslan
Tony is spot on. Like I've said many, many times...bowling success is just like dating...it's all about your expectations. Most bowlers (WAY more than 90%) are perfectly fine bowling around 150-160, handicap leagues, beer drinking leagues, no-tap tourneys, and an occasional 200+ game to validate their efforts. Mark Baker once told me that he sees relatively few bowlers that average in the 140-160 range because they get to that level where they bowl a 200 game each week or an occasional 600 series and think, "I guess I've figured this game out...I just need to repeat what I did when I rolled that high score (whatever that was)". Horrible bowlers know they are horrible and if they want to change that they have no choice but to seek out coaching. Good bowlers know that they aren't actually that good and require help (coaching) to get better.
So;
#1: What are you expectations concerning bowling? What are your goals? What are your dreams? What are you willing to do to achieve those goals/dreams?
There's NOTHING wrong with just wanting to bowl for fun and get an occasional 200 game. I'd quit bowling if that was my fate...but others would consider that perfectly fine and meet their expectations.
I DISAGREE with the folks that think you can get significantly better without coaching. There are SO many moving parts to bowling....and SO many things that you are currently doing incorrectly (without even seeing you bowl)...that trying to watch videos and emulate players and take random advice....you're going to end up taking a very slow and painful path towards mediocracy. A coach is valuable, especially in bowling, because you're seeing the same person over and over and they are seeing you progress and keeping you on track and keeping you focused on certain things while not letting/encouraging you to get distracted with other bowling-related things that would take you off track.
And I can say that without second guessing because I actually tried that approach. I get advice from anyone and everyone...I searched out videos...I tried emulating this player or that player...I read books...I did it ALL. And I would never have broken 175 using that approach indefinitely. I could have gotten to the low 170s on my own...but that's about it. Coaching fixed a LOT of things that I was doing that I didn't even know I was doing. And it kept me focused on things like timing, stance, approach...rather than me focusing all my effort on release or ball technology.
Now...12 lessons in 3 months is nutty. For one simple reason...you need to space out your lessons to give you ample time to practice what you learn and apply it to league situations. If you are getting a lesson, bowl once, then get another lesson...obviously you're not going to have had time to really master what you learned the week before.
I suggest finding the highest level coach you can...I'd recommend a PBA Pro (National Tour, PWBA, or PBA50, not necessarily a regional pro because that could be hit or miss) OR if one is not available (which would be shocking given you're in New York/East Coast)...try to find at LEAST a silver level USBC coach. Bronze level is hit or miss. Bowling has an interesting tiered coaching system because each level is monumentally harder to get than the previous level. So, junior coaching certification...simple. Take a 4-hour class, get cleared to work with kids, take a basic bowling test and you're done. Bronze is a bit harder, but relatively easy and cost effective. Silver takes much more time and energy and money. Gold is virtually impossible. Unfortunately, that leads to an environment where there are virtually no Gold level coaches, finding a silver level coach is difficult, and finding a bronze level coach is very easy.
I'd THEN recommend a bi-weekly, tri-weekly, or monthly appointment with that coach.
That's my 12 cents.
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