1 A good coach takes the time to watch several frames to see how you bowl before saying anything.
2. A good coach improves what your doing, and if major changes are actually needed, has a plan for making those changes one item at a time - rather than hitting you with 23 different things to keep in mind at the same time.
3. A good coach will work you past what you think your limitations are to find what your actual limits are.
4. A good coach will recognize the root of the problem vs. what you think it is.
5. A good coach at the end of your time will have you feeling like you accomplished something positive - even if you can't see it yet in your game.
6. A good coach isn't there to boost your ego, but neither are they there to crush your spirit. They believe in what they do - and that you can succeed in performing (and more importantly - enjoying) this game that we do.
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