First things first relax and keep in mind that win or lose you love bowling an it's all fun! You are only bowling yourself forget about all the others. Next get yourself into some brackets. A lot is going all around you so if this is more then one weekend show up on a day your not bowling and people watch get used to the noise and all that. That's about all I can tell you I bowled some of the Ozark open as a young man so my team always made a party out if the weekend. Vdub might be the guy to give you a better idea.
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