Bowling balls usually lose their OOB reaction after a certain number of games. So I can understand why the pro shop guy suggested you throw a few more games with the ball. In regards to the ball getting rougher after certain amount of use, I'm curious on how they concluded to this. I would think it would be the opposite. A ball rotates against a hard surface and depending on the amount of revs, you would generate enough heat. You would figure that you are actually making the surface smoother. JayHawk's Ball Surface Scanner Video backs this theory up.
As far as leaving 7 pins, I figure a simple move would resolve that. All my bowling balls have the same layout, RICO, and I only use the bowling ball's surface for a different reaction. I normally start out with my Hammer Taboo Blue/Silver (@4000 grit) and as the line dries up, I switch over to my Hammer Taboo (@4000 grit with Powerhouse Factory Finish polish). I usually continue the same line as where I left off, though sometimes I may have to move a board right. Although my Hammer 1st Blood (@1500 grit with polish) has the same layout, it has a weight hole, which makes the ball more angular. So I normally just shoot that further out right, if neither balls work.
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