I'll rephrase this slightly.
If the opposing team didn't contact your Team captain directly (which is what the rule states, the Sec. or Pres. can't just tell you) then they violated the rule.
You have the choice of either doing nothing or file a protest/bring it to the leagues attention.
If you do nothing, then you don't whine about it and wish things were different, you live with it.
If you do file a protest, Then you follow the procedures regarding protests And live with the results of that protest.
Rule 119 - Protest/Appeal Procedures
The ball is in your court, do you want to pass or play? you have to weigh the ramifications of your actions and chose.
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